Christian dating is he the one
They need to seek and gather as much information as possible.
They shouldn’t just depending upon their feelings as the determining factor. After seeking the answer to this question as a precious jewel worthy of finding, we believe God will reveal it to them.
This is a question that has been posed to my husband and me many times.
When asked, our reply is basically, “…Don’t know, maybe yes, and maybe no.” That’s not very clarifying, is it?
“Dear Ruthie, I recently came across your post “How Do I Know if He’s The One?
” and it really opened my eyes to my current relationship.
I have prayed but don’t feel like God is answering me. But recently, the emails and questions haven’t been so clear. One that we can live with and not turn around and blame him if things don’t work out like we hoped.Not only would it be foolish, but downright selfish.While you do not have to commit to marrying this person right away, you should realize that any guy-girl relationship you begin has the potential to end in marriage. That is why it is important to consider some warning signs you will look for while dating someone. If you desire to have a marriage relationship built on Scripture, you will want to marry a man who will be a strong spiritual leader to you and your future family. Your spiritual maturity may result in frustration and leadership struggles if he is not as strong as you in his relationship with God. Ultimately, your spiritual condition is up to you and you alone.The reason we answer in such a non-committal way is because there is SO much that goes into knowing an answer to that question.It’s something that the person who is inquiring, needs to deal with in a very intentional and mature manner.